My boyfriend and I are celebrating Valentine’s Day today, on Martin Luther King, Jr. Day. This is because my husband died on Valentine’s Day. Jim and I tried celebrating on the traditional holiday in our first few months of dating. It was a disaster. My therapist at the time recommended changing the day. I am off from work so we are going to a Japanese restaurant for lunch. I got him a couple of pairs of colorful spandex briefs as a gift.